Let’s Be Honest—This Isn’t the Plan You Started With.

 

Divorce is a full-time job you didn’t apply for, didn’t train for, and definitely aren’t getting paid for. And yet—here you are. Trying to split up a life while still living in it.

 

It’s a strange moment, isn’t it? On paper, things are dividing up. In real life, it’s not so clean. One life is becoming two, and you’re left trying to figure out what comes next without dropping the ball on everything that still matters: your kids, your home, your sense of stability.

 

You’re constantly asking yourself, “What now?”

 

I care about this work because I’ve seen how bad it can get.

 

My parents got divorced after 25 years, during the exact period of my life when I was becoming a financial advisor. Their divorce wasn’t just a breakup, it felt like a suspension bridge collapsing in slow motion. One cable snapped, then another, the tension building visibly as the structure lurched under the strain - until, all at once, everything hit the ground in real time. They were both bankrupt, in poor health, and in pain. That pain rippled through every inch of our family.

 

I was powerless to stop the wreckage. But I knew if they’d had someone — anyone — to guide them through those financial decisions with clarity and calm, the fallout would’ve been far less severe. That’s why this work means so much to me. I’ve seen what can happen when there isn’t a plan.

 

Most people think once the papers are signed, the hard part’s over. The truth is, post-divorce decisions have just as much impact—if not more—on your future as anything that came before. And if you don’t have someone looking out for your future, you’re left making critical decisions in a fog of exhaustion and uncertainty.

 

Here’s what I help with: giving structure to the chaos. Helping you figure out what you have, what you need, and what you want your life to actually look like now.

 

Not the version your lawyer pushed across the table, not the version you’re telling your friends you’re “fine” with.

The version that actually works for you.

 

I’ll help you rebuild a financial life that feels like yours. Whether you’re worried about cash flow, long-term security, taxes, insurance, the house, the kids, or all of the above — we’ll walk through it together.

 

We’ll make real decisions. Not reactive ones, not panicked ones. Real ones, with your long-term well-being in mind.

 

You don’t have to do this alone. And you don’t have to pretend you’ve got it all figured out. If you’re rebuilding after divorce—or smack dab in the middle of one—I’m in your corner. Let’s talk.

 

Divorce already took enough from you. Don’t let indecision or avoidance take what’s left. Waiting until “things settle down” might feel easier, but it often leads to missed opportunities, financial blind spots, and added stress that could’ve been avoided.

 

Without a plan, people stay stuck in survival mode for years. That doesn’t have to be you.

 

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